Is your partnership or marriage not what you expected? Maybe there’s a lot more fighting, less passion, or less fun than what you thought there would be when you set out to find the right person for you and settle down. Maybe you all have seen a decline in the levels of satisfaction you once felt or maybe you want to build on an already solid foundation to take your relationship and life to the next level. A level wherein you and your partner are both very satisfied and gain true benefit and joy from the relationship.
It’s ok to need relationship help…
It’s hard to take two individuals and put them together and expect them to live life together, cohesively! Yet, this is usually the expectation, that if we have love for our partner/wife/husband/spouse, that everything will fall into place and minimal problems will occur. That’s just not realistic! So let me help you in this moment by telling you that marital problems are very common and most relationships would benefit from seeking relationship help from a trained professional.
Being in a healthy, fulfilling relationship is a learned skill that takes work, and oftentimes guidance, to arrive in a productive place. There are patterns that we often have to recognize and change in order to exist peacefully in a romantic relationship. But that can be very challenging to do when most patterns are so disguised and have been happening for such a long time, sometimes decades.
Learn to resolve communication issues…
You shouldn’t have to figure your relationship out on your own, and oftentimes we can’t do it alone, because it can be impossible to identify the dysfunctional patterns that are present in the relationship that cause it to be such a life stressor. Your relationship doesn’t have to be a major life stressor though, and can actually serve to improve your life overall. Call today for your FREE 15-minute consultation to see if we’d be a good therapeutic fit. I provide convenient online therapy sessions, which I find to be a really successful mode of counseling for the couples that I work with. Get started on changes now, your future self will thank you!